We asked for your top ten lists of things to look for when visiting or choosing a church. Here is a compendium of some of the responses from our readers (not necessarily in order of importance). Modern Reformation does not necessarily share all of the views expressed here.
Elements of the ServiceIs the liturgy, including the music, carefully thought through in order to be biblical and honoring to God?Is there an opportunity to sing at least some hymns?Is there an emphasis on congregational singing?Is the giving done in secret (including tithes)?Is there intensive, clear, and biblical preaching and teaching?Does the church provide an opportunity to say the Lord's Prayer regularly?Does the church provide an opportunity to say the Apostles Creed regularly?Is the worship service reverent?Is the quality of the music good?Are the songs theologically sound and God-centered?Is substantial time spent in Scripture reading and prayer?Does the church provide gospel-oriented preaching (rather than law-oriented preaching that berates a congregation)?Is there something more than a memorial view of the Lord's Supper?Does the minister offer expository preaching?
Congregational CultureIs the congregation small enough that it would be possible to develop a close relationship with each family?Is there a high standard of feminine modesty in dress and behavior?Do many of the people enjoy rigorous study and discussion of spiritual matters?Is the leadership godly and male?Is there leadership by elders (rather than Congregation-alism)?Is the congregation friendly?Does the church have single adults?
Church ActivitiesDoes the church have Sunday school teachers that instruct children about Jesus and basic doctrines?Does it have a missions ministry?Is there a connection with missionaries and other ministries that goes beyond writing a check?Is the church active?Are the fathers challenged to take responsibility for the teaching and training of their families? Are the families encouraged to learn and participate together during the church's meeting times rather than split up into age groups?Is there a place for our family to serve?
